The End is Near
Looks like the day that all my female blog readers have dreaded is coming. Soon I shall be single. I think saying that here and other places makes it kind of sink in. On the good side the wife and I get along well enough. We will work together and do this the right way. No scumbags involved until the very end and only for finalizing things.
It is probably for the best. I was ready to suffer for the next twelve years or so until the kids were ready for college but her idea is probably better. We really were more infatuated with each other than in love. We also are very stubborn and never really merged together. We always had issues compromising on things which is bad. The world sort of conspired against us too as the first 2-3 years of our marriage was full of new kids, dead parents, and all kinds of things that conspired to keep us from spending any time ourselves. I do not think this divorce will go very fast. We have a lot of things to figure out but I assume in another six months or so I could easily be living La Vita Loca.
It does feel weird though. I mean someone you have spent every day with for ten years will suddenly not be there. Wrapping your head around that is weird. I will keep you all posted though.