Welcome Goat Lady
Hopefully she does not have a beard. However welcome to BamBam's new friend the Goatlady. She seems like a nice person. Should be a fun read.
If I can give one piece of advice to every poker player though it would be: chillax. I have learned over the years through painful repetitive pain is that as soon as you expect poker to give you something you fail. The odds are what the odds are but when you expect your Aces to hold up all the time you are just going to cause yourself pain. So next time your Aces get jammed on the fourth raise and the tard with ducks [2,2] sucks out his four flush to crack your pretty Aces just say "Nice hand" and continue on. As a matter of fact do not only say "Nice hand", accept it, because until you do you will not succeed.
So that is my poker wisdom for the day. Accept what is. Change what you can about YOUR game and enjoy yourself. The results will follow.